There's a special kind of magic found in sharing a meal out with loved ones. 

Laughter echoing off the walls, the clinking of glasses, the comforting aroma of delicious food – these moments become cherished memories

It's a simple, yet profound pleasure - settling into a familiar seat, anticipating a favourite dish, and soaking in the unique atmosphere while catching up with friends.

Yet the vibrant life of an eatery can sometimes feel transient. 

Doors close, signs come down, and familiar haunts fade into the sepia tones of nostalgia. It seems this poignant truth holds particularly strong for the often challenging world of hospitality.

Tapping into this shared sentiment, a question posed to the 'We Grew Up In Southampton' Facebook community struck a chord: "Which long-gone dining spots do you miss the most?"

 The response was overwhelming, a digital outpouring of fond recollections from food lovers across the city, eager to reminisce about the flavours and feelings of Southampton's culinary past. Passionate voices chimed in, painting vivid pictures of meals enjoyed and moments savoured.

Join us on a stroll down memory lane as we revisit some of Southampton's most dearly departed restaurants, based on those heartfelt community contributions.

Bouzy Rouge - Bargate 

Tucked away like a hidden secret down an alleyway near Southampton’s historic Bargate, Bouzy Rouge was a discovery waiting to happen. 

This quaint, undeniably cosy little restaurant charmed diners with its intimate setting. 

Despite its distinctly French-sounding name, the menu was a delightful journey across Europe, boasting an eclectic mix of influences that kept patrons intrigued and coming back for more.

Buffalo Bills - Commercial Road 

Meat lovers, rejoice – or rather, remember fondly! 

Buffalo Bills on Commercial Road was the undisputed champion for those craving hearty, American-style grub. 

This place was all about the grill, serving up generous, sizzling plates piled high with ribs, juicy steaks, flavourful wings, classic burgers, and all the trimmings. 

It was a popular, bustling spot, perfect for satisfying a serious appetite.

Christina's - East Street 

Nestled right next door to Nick's on East Street, Christina's offered a different, yet equally cherished, flavour. 

This family-run gem brought a delightful blend of Greek hospitality and cuisine, alongside familiar English favourites. 

For years, it served the local community with warmth and dedication, becoming a go-to spot for those seeking Mediterranean sunshine on a plate or simply a comforting, home-style meal. 

Its closure was felt keenly by its loyal patrons.

Cadena Cafe - Above Bar 

A true echo from a bygone era, 

Cadena Cafes occupied prime position between 33 and 35 Above Bar, close to where the modern entrance to Westquay shopping centre now stands. 

Their story began modestly in 1951, operating from mobile premises, before they established their permanent home in 1954. 

For nearly two decades, it was a hub for shoppers and workers seeking refreshment. 

The final pot of tea was brewed in the autumn of 1971, closing a chapter on mid-century Southampton life.

Elias - Canal Walk 

Food enthusiasts across Southampton mourned the loss of Elias in Canal Walk, a long-standing favourite for authentic Greek dining. 

For many years, it was the place to go for delicious mezze, succulent grills, and that unmistakable Hellenic atmosphere. 

Sadly, its doors closed for the final time in 2018, marking not just the end of a restaurant but a transformation of the space itself, as it was later converted into serviced accommodation – a permanent reminder of the changing face of the city.

La Cantina - Bedford Place 

For more than sixteen years, La Cantina offered Southampton diners a vibrant escape to Latin America without ever leaving Bedford Place. 

Stepping inside was like entering another world, thoughtfully decorated in a cosy, tasteful South American style. 

Retro photos adorned the walls, bathed in warm, inviting lighting, creating an atmosphere that was both lively and intimate. 

It was a place to savour exotic flavours and perhaps a cocktail or two. 

The closure in 2015 marked the end of an era for those who loved its unique charm and culinary offerings.

La Margherita - Commercial Road (and later Town Quay) 

A true taste of Italy here in Southampton! 

La Margherita held a special place in many hearts, first gracing Commercial Road with its presence before finding its later, perhaps equally beloved, home at Town Quay. 

It wasn't just the authentic pasta dishes and warm Italian welcome that drew crowds; this popular spot was also a known haunt for Saints players unwinding after a match and even visiting stars gracing the stage at the nearby Mayflower Theatre. 

Imagine tucking into a delicious pizza while spotting a local hero or a famous face at the next table – La Margherita offered that touch of glamour alongside its comforting cuisine.

Little Buddha 

Sometimes, new life can spring from unfortunate events. 

Little Buddha rose like a phoenix from the ashes of the much-loved Momtaz Indian Restaurant. 

Many in the community were deeply saddened when a fire tragically ripped through the popular Indian eatery. However, the venue that took its place managed to soothe some of that sadness. 

Little Buddha switched culinary continents, offering delicious and well-regarded Chinese food, quickly establishing itself as a worthy successor and a new favourite for many.

Los Marinos - Ocean Village 

Los Marinos was perfectly positioned to capture the maritime spirit, offering diners stunning views overlooking the water. 

More than just a place for a meal, it captured the buzz of the area, transforming as the evening went on. 

Like several establishments fondly remembered by the community, Los Marinos was a popular destination not just for its food, but also for enjoying drinks as the sun dipped below the horizon, reflecting off the marina.

Nick's - East Street 

An absolute stalwart of the Southampton dining scene, 

Nick's was an East Street institution for many, many years. 

Dependable, welcoming, and always ready with a satisfying plate, it was a true classic.

Whether you were popping in for a quick, comforting lunchtime bite during a busy day or settling down for a more leisurely evening meal, Nick's provided a familiar and reliable backdrop for countless Southampton residents.

The Old Oriental - Queen's Terrace 

Situated on Queens Terrace, The Old Oriental was a classic example of a traditional pub that successfully doubled as a food destination. 

It served the community not just with pints and pub grub, but also as a lively spot for evening revellers enjoying a night out, blending the lines between a casual eatery and a busy local bar.

Pilgrim House - Canute Road 

Housed within a characterful old building on Canute Road, originally constructed way back in 1868, Pilgrim House Chinese restaurant brought exotic flavours to a historic setting. 

It enjoyed considerable popularity, offering a taste of the East in unique surroundings.

However, its story took an unfortunate turn, eventually closing due to issues with poor hygiene – a sad end for a charming venue.

Poppadom Express - Oxford Street 

Injecting a dose of contemporary style into the Indian dining scene, Poppadom Express on Oxford Street offered a fresh, modern take on curry house classics. 

Its bright, modern dining area and eye-catching open kitchen created a vibrant atmosphere, uniquely set against the smooth sounds of Frank Sinatra. 

A sleek bar area further enhanced its cosmopolitan chic, making it a trendy spot in the early 2000s. 

Though popular and well-loved by many during its time, its tenure was relatively short-lived compared to some other city institutions.

Wimpy - London Road (and High Street) 

Who doesn't have a soft spot for a classic Wimpy? 

For generations, this iconic burger joint represented affordable treats and family outings. 

Southampton locals fondly remember the branches on London Road and the High Street, known for their distinctive table service – a novelty compared to today's fast-food giants.

There was later a restaurant in Shirley and one in Portswood.

Whether it was a Bender in a Bun or a Knickerbocker Glory, Wimpy holds a special place in the fast-food nostalgia archives.